After breaking up with someone you love, even if you were the one who decided to end it, you still feel a sense of loss, and you ache for the love you were getting that’s now gone. All these feelings have to work themselves out of your system. It’s a process you must go through, similar to grieving or getting over an addiction. Some researchers say that it can even take up to half as long as the relationship doesn’t lasted. You must learn to let go, even if it means that he doesn’t belong to you anymore. Letting go doesn’t necessarily mean you don’t love him anymore., but rather you only want him to be happy, even though you’re not a part of it.
In love, it doesn’t matter whether you win or lose, what’s important is that you’ve learned to share it with others. Of course, it will be painful for you to set him free, but time heals all wounds. The time will come, when you’ll learn to accept that he’s not the one meant for you. You shouldn’t think that your life is useless and you can’t live without him. Life has its own reasons, sometimes too difficult and painful to understand.
Love favors no presumption and it abhors fascination. Also, love is not an intimation but an abstraction. All divine and pure inspiration. Not in our mundane presence, will love exist or not love at all. Just like in the middle of a dance, the music suddenly stopped, you were both surprised and both were not the same anymore. When both of you opened your eyes, blaming each others for the dance that went wrong and the music has already gone.
You must move on, but you can’t do that until you close that chapter in your life. If ever, avoid the things that remind you of him. Don’t listen to sad songs on the radio. Skip the stations that reminds you of your ex. Listen to music without words for awhile. Don’t go to the places you’ve been together and put away pictures that remind you of him. Put away his gifts to you and if you want, stay with a friend for a while if there are too many sad memories at home. Stay away from his friends, and NEVER seek gossip about him. Whatever you hear, you won’t feel any better.
Find someone new. Though you’re not ready to get serious with anyone else yet, it’s important to get out and meet new faces. A new man in your life would be a pleasant distraction, but don’t cry on his shoulder. Don’t start telling him how bad it was with your ex. Be positive., don’t dwell on the past.
Enjoy the new friendship. Enjoy life and give yourself a chance to be happy. Who knows? Maybe this person is the one who’s really meant for you, the one who will really love you.
16 Comments on "Letting Go…."
I'm also into in various relationship before and I can say that it is really hard to let go a person even you don't want it but because of many reasons you will be force, or both of you will realized that this is much better than staying in a relationship.
All I can say is that it is not easy to have another person into your life and it will take time to find another one.
Breaking of love is always disappointing for any human being….that i was faced a few days ago.after breaking you should try to forget him completely because of facing many problems.You should try to find a good friendship which you will not serious but who will love more.
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I'm also in to in various relationship before & I can say that it is hard to let go a person even you don't need it but because of plenty of reasons you will be force, or both of you will realized that this is much better than staying in a relationship.
All I can say is that it is not simple to have another person in to your life & it will take time to find another.
I have seen couple of my friends going through these stuffs, it is hard and unimaginable! The pain, the tear drops! It is not that easy for soft hearted people. It always takes time to get back to normal life, one needs assistance & help on regular basis. So, never let go or simply do not get attached to someone emotionally!
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After breaking up everyone should let his/her boy/girl friend to live on his/her own.but it is a good idea to keep in touch in a polite way.it actually depends on how his/her mind or mood.
al tough everyone has his/her choice.but forgetting the sorrows and learning from the past everyone should go for the next……….
Love comes silently, and goes with crying lovers. I couldn't forget my first love. I am still now waiting for her. I can't receive a new one though she may be a pleasure of my whole life. Love is a different things. True love never end. No love can interesting without its pain.
It's true that it is hard to let go of someone you've loved more than your life but you have to face the reality that you're not meant for each other and have to move on with your life… Life is too short so enjoy your life to the fullest…
once you fell that someone is important in your life you always sacrifice every thing for that person related t o your life. its hard to leave or forget his / her every moment and its importance in your life
love is a common thing in our life but every one should realize that if it goes from life you should go on. otherwise you will fail. Now i can say this is a good post for all.
Life is too short thats why its important to enjoy than suffer for someone. If anyone wants to go out from your life, let him/her to go because remember he/she was not really yours because he/she hurts you.
Just enjoy and chill out ! Do not suffer anymore!
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At first I like say that the theme of the site and the article is wonderful, exceptional and extraordinary. I think the idea expressed within it may be helpful to many people, to myself also. I am very much thankful to the author. This idea is teaching me to survive in this beautiful and prosperous World. We can and should let many things to go for our peace of mind and happiness. It is not totally a lose, it seems a lose. It is painful no doubt but it can be tolerated if we try our best. Again many thanks a lot.
When a conflict appears with your life partner, then it is very useful to become separate yourself with this relationship. As it is benefited for both of the person.
It is quite difficult to find some one else after separation. But it take time to find someone else.
Letting go may not be easy, but situation make it easy. If you don’t have any other option but breakup, you wouldn’t and shouldn’t wait, after some time you will find a substitute for it..
Life is only once, so enjoy and keep moving..
Good tips, it’s true love is not always between two couples. But it could also among people who know each other, so anyone can understand each other is characterized by mutual love and mutual help.